Family breakdown is one of the most emotionally and financially draining experiences a person can go through. Whether it involves parenting arrangements, property division, or simply navigating the end of a relationship, the path forward can feel overwhelming. Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) offers a structured, supportive, and cost-effective alternative to the adversarial court process – and for many families, it is transformative.
In this article, I want to share what FDR is, why I believe in it deeply, and be transparent about where things currently stand with our service.
What Is Family Dispute Resolution?
Family Dispute Resolution is a professionally facilitated process in which a trained and accredited practitioner helps separating couples or family members work through disputes and reach agreements – without going to court.
Under the Family Law Act 1975, most separating parents in Australia are required to make a genuine attempt at FDR before applying to a court for parenting orders. A registered FDR practitioner can issue a Section 60I certificate, which is required to commence most parenting order applications.
FDR is not mediation in the general sense – it is a specific, regulated process designed for family law matters, carried out only by practitioners who are registered with the Attorney-General’s Department.
The Benefits of FDR
1. It puts families in control
Unlike a court process, where a judge makes decisions for your family, FDR empowers the parties themselves to reach their own agreements. This leads to outcomes that are more practical, more personalised, and far more likely to be followed.
2. It is significantly cheaper than litigation
Family law proceedings can cost tens of thousands of dollars. FDR, by contrast, is a fraction of that cost – and many community-based services offer it at low or no cost. Even private FDR practitioners represent enormous savings compared to protracted court battles.
3. It is faster
Court proceedings can drag on for months or even years. FDR sessions can often be arranged within weeks and, for many families, one or two sessions is enough to reach an agreement.
4. It reduces conflict
The adversarial nature of court proceedings often intensifies conflict between parties. FDR is designed to de-escalate tension, encourage cooperation, and focus on the wellbeing of children. For families who must continue to co-parent, this is invaluable.
5. Children benefit most
Research consistently shows that children fare better when their parents can communicate and cooperate. FDR keeps the focus on what matters most – the children’s needs – and helps parents develop workable arrangements that serve their children’s best interests.
6. Confidentiality
FDR is a confidential process. What is discussed in sessions generally cannot be used in subsequent court proceedings, which encourages honesty and open communication between parties.
7. It works even when relationships are difficult
FDR practitioners are trained to manage high-conflict situations. Shuttle mediation (where parties are in separate rooms) is available where direct communication is not appropriate or safe.
Looking Forward
I am genuinely excited about the work ahead. FDR is a field I am passionate about, and I look forward to supporting families through what is often one of the hardest chapters of their lives – with professionalism, empathy, and a commitment to outcomes that truly serve everyone involved.
Thank you for your patience and for taking the time to read this. If you have any questions in the meantime, please feel free to reach out.
Michael J. Tyler is an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner with the Attorney-General’s Department.